by Rabbi Ephraim Sprecher | first published here!
The
Rambam in Hilchot Taanit informs us that times of great distress and suffering,
like we are now experiencing, are times for introspection. G‑d wants us to
reflect and think about how to become a better person. This Coronavirus is
telling us that there are two areas where we should improve ourselves: The
value of quality family time and the pain of loneliness.
This
mandatory quarantine of family reminds us where our true source of strength
lies. Sitting in our rooms, cut off from the rest of the world, forces us to
undergo a process of self‑examination; but what values are truly important to
us? Not our careers or financial success, but values of spirit, faith and
family.
The
Coronavirus that has put millions of people into isolation reminds us that
there are people who are always socially isolated. Do we pay attention to those
people who suffer from constant loneliness, who return to an empty apartment
day after day? These lonely people who have no family, those who are home alone
waiting for someone to give them a friendly hello, do we hear their voice and
feel their pain? Perhaps this virus that forces us to become lonely is a wake-up
call to remember all the lonely people.
Loneliness
can be painful, but it is also easy to alleviate with a friendly smile, a kind
word, a cheerful greeting or a phone call. If each of us remembers one lonely
person and reaches out to that person by inviting them to a Shabbat meal (after
the crisis is over) can make a huge contribution to light up one’s life as
Debbie Boone sang: YOU LIGHT UP MY LIFE.
Perhaps
the Coronavirus and the loneliness that has been imposed on us gives us a taste
of what loneliness really feels like. We miss our social encounters that we are
accustomed to. This disease gives us a wonderful opportunity to lessen the pain
of lonely people because we’re all in this together.
This
week’s parsha is VAYIKRA, and we know that the parsha always speaks to Current
Events. Vayikra means G‑d calls out to each and every one of us! Reach out and
touch one lonely person and bring a little joy and sunshine into their lonely
lives. This is G‑d’s message to each and every one of us in this week’s parsha.
In
the merit of this great Mitzvah, our prayers will be answered and we will
overcome this deadly disease in peace and in health.
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